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hi all.
recently, friend of mine, *Jenny has been put into a spot by her so-called friend, **xinyi.
* - name changed to protect identity of the person ** - name unchanged to subject person to humiliation
and it's not the first time. time after time, we ignore those childish and spiteful actions but today, i think it's time i do something about it.
you see, i'm not the kind of person who enjoys making fun of people. yes, i do tease my friends but it's all in the name of fun-joy-laughter. thus writing this entry, i have deepest sympathy to the person on the receiving end (though you probably wouldn't want it).
let me start by saying, *Jenny i understand how it feels like to be stuck in between two groups of people that means so much to you. trust me, i've been through it before and i know it sucks.
that's why i've been tolerant all these while. if the other party refuses to give in, we just have to step backwards.
but watching you troubling over this matter pains and irritates me. wonder if **xinyi feels the same? or is she just finding something meaningful to do in her life? i hate to see any of my friends in this helpless position.
**xinyi, seriously what good will it do with all your spite on us? it's true that the Internet provides freedom for any kinds of opinion. but are you being responsible with your opinions?
in such a process, you've hurt the person who (i hope) you truly care for in this life. *Jenny is growing up, so are you. while growing up, you get to meet new people, learn new things (good and bad yes), fall in love and so on.
of course, i don't think you'd be falling in love anytime soon since you have such distrust with guys. have you even tried though? kinda pity you actually. not that i'm saying BGR FTW, but it's just part of growing up. if you've never tried, you'll never know (:
then again, you falling in love is one thing. people falling in love with you is another.
you should really thank God and your parents. why? because you came out as a girl, silly. i shudder to think what will happen to you if that didn't happen aye? damn, that sounds so gangsta..
ok i digressed. point is, what i conclude from this entire saga, you seemed pretty insecure about yourself and your friends, or in this case *Jenny. but hey, everyone has insecurities so i don't blame you.
what you deemed as "bad company" are actually the ones who've been through most of these two years of *Jenny's life. they've been there for all her ups and downs. cheering her up with simple things, like wrapping toilet paper around her head, or even "sloppy dance moves" that can put a smile on her face. you don't know how it works between us and *Jenny, so do keep your irresponsible opinions to yourself.
i know we're not the only ones that care about her right? i have no doubt that looking at these,
put smiles on *Jenny's face too.
you can continue to bite, spit, spite or whatever horrible things that you can say or do to us. rest assured, one day those photos will only become hurtful memories for *Jenny. reminders that her once so-called friend failed to understand the situation she's in.
anyway, what's so bad about doing silly videos? it's everywhere online. plenty of imitations and parodies for the videos. if you really care so much, go flame those other videos then.
here's one for you.
but i guess they are waaaaaayyyy better than us of course, with all the practice and video editing.
nonetheless, thank you for the delightful comment Facebook (:
and your friend's too.
we will try to do a better and more coordinated one in the future. do check out our NOBODY video too! we always welcome haters and fans alike (:
as for this entry, me myself and i are solely responsible for everything written here. *Jenny is not involved. i will not involve any others thus this is only between you and me.
**xinyi and Andey's little heart-to-heart.
one last piece of advice that i think you really need,
"friends can only advise, they can't tell you what to do."